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How to Talk to Anyone: A Practical Guide to Building Relationships That Last

A review of Leil Lowndes' book on conversation skills and building meaningful connections through genuine curiosity and listening

How to Talk to Anyone: A Practical Guide to Building Relationships That Last

"The more you get people talking about themselves, the more they will think you are fascinating." – Leil Lowndes

For many people, conversation doesn't come naturally. How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes breaks down the skill of connecting with others into approachable steps.

This book's main lesson is simple but profound: people love to talk about themselves. Learn to ask genuine questions, listen with curiosity, and let others share their stories. If you do, you'll find relationships—personal and professional—get easier and more fulfilling.

There's even an "advanced mode": help connect others to each other. Once you become skilled at sparking conversations between other people, you can step back, recharge, and watch those connections flourish.

Where to find the book

About the Author

Leil Lowndes is a communication expert, author, and speaker. Known for making social skills approachable, she has written several books on interpersonal communication and has spent her career helping people build confidence in how they connect with others. You can learn more about her on Wikipedia or visit her official website.


How to Talk to Anyone is a book about relationships, not scripts. It's for anyone who wants to build better conversations and, ultimately, better connections.

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